I became a temptress and now my boyfriend is ready to give me what I desire

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DEAR DEIDRE: NOW that I’ve changed my appearance, got my own house, and started going out with my friends, my boyfriend is finally ready to give me the one thing I’ve desperately wanted – children.

For ten years I begged him to make a commitment and start a family, but he was never ready, instead coming up with endless excuses.

He broke my heart more times than I care to remember, with questionable “friendships” and late night calls to other women.

He never posts pictures of me on social media, and when I met his colleagues, it’s clear they didn’t know he had a long-term girlfriend.

Whenever I confronted him, he made me feel stupid for questioning him, but I know he wasn’t faithful.

I am 36 and he is 37.

Now he complains that the changes I made recently made him feel left out, which I admit I did on purpose.

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Lately he has been a different man and has gone above and beyond for me.

He compliments my looks, cooks and cleans and, most confusing of all, talks about marrying me, apologizes for being a stupid boyfriend and wants to be better.

He even talked about starting a family. He cries at the thought of losing me.

This is a far cry from the man who made fun of me for gaining weight and even took family photos so I wasn’t included.

He took me through an emotional roller coaster. I’m not used to the attention I get and the love I crave.

I can’t decide whether to stay or continue to live for myself.

DEIDRE SAYS: What a worthless relationship you had with this man.

Unless he had a complete character transformation, any change was unlikely to be permanent.

It’s hard to stay with someone who treated you so badly, but his regrets might be something you can build on.

Take your time – if there is a place in your heart for him, he must really deserve it.

Don’t be fooled by his stories about marriage and children.

If you decide to continue living without him, take your time and make sure it’s the right move for you.

Counseling would help you choose the right path. My support package How counseling can help explains more.

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