The swingers’ club is my new paradise – it beats my stale marriage

DEAR DEIDRE: The night my wife told me she was attracted to another man at work, we had amazing sex.

She had been out drinking with her girlfriends and was very lively when she got home.

I was worried when she told me about the guy, but I soon forgot about him because she was so flirtatious.

The problem is that, apart from that one night, she hardly touched me for ten years.

I am a red-blooded man of 48 years old, my wife is 53 years old and I am not ready for a life without sex.

But she’s not interested in making me happy, which makes me feel rejected and, of course, frustrated.

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To satisfy my needs, I use pornography, and a lot of it, I even watch it when my wife is at home.

She doesn’t care and I admit that over the years I have become addicted.

Still, I thought it was better than being unfaithful.

Then my friend mentioned a local club that has swinger nights and I couldn’t get it out of my head.

So one night I told my wife I was going out for a beer and visited a swinger club instead.

What I found was heaven for men like me. . . women ready to satisfy any man with sex, without any obligations.

I haven’t felt so liberated in a long time. Now I regularly go to those special evenings and I am less attracted to pornography.

I want my wife all the time but she doesn’t answer.

I know she is going through menopause and I have tried to support her but she refuses any help.

DEIDRE SAYS: These sticks can put you at risk of getting an STI, so stop early.

Your addiction comes from the porn sites themselves, not from your sexual frustration.

Online pornography is designed to attract viewers.

You undermined your wife’s confidence by seeking sexual relief on the Internet.

She would never run back into your arms while you were openly watching pornography.

Tell her you’re going to quit porn – and find professional support at pivotalrecovery.org, who can help you with your addiction to porn and sex.

Menopause can affect a woman’s libido, but telling her you love her, cooking for her, or maybe giving her a bath can go a long way toward making her feel wanted.

My support packages Menopause Issues and How to Delight a Woman in Bed will give you a better understanding.

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